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Poor Terrell.  His life has been in shambles these past few years and hopefully Iyanla was able to help him see the root of his problems so he can begin to really fix his life.

According to NecoleBitchie:

During the episode, Terrell was emotional as he revealed that when he was 11 years old, he found out that his father was his married neighbor who lived right across the street, and his father had an affair with his mother when she was just 16 years old.  It wasn’t until he started crushing on his neighbor’s daughter (his sister) that he learned the truth.

He told his father:

I think everything that has happened to me…I’ve been a product of my environment. I knew I wasn’t happy inside, but I always played it off. I put a smile on my face when I knew I was hurting and I was sad inside.  Even in relationships that I had with women, I really didn’t know how to have a relationship with them. Those are things that I know I probably should have been taught as a kid and I never was. I guess the question I should have asked years ago was, ‘Why wasn’t I told?’ Why did it take me to have an interest in my sister, a liking to my sister, for me to know who my dad was?

For me to live across the street and know that you were my dad and know that on that side of the street you had kids, you had a wife. That was a family and I wasn’t apart of that. I couldn’t understand or wrap my brain around why I was across the street and wasn’t apart of that. My mom was elsewhere and I’m staying with my grandmother and I didn’t have a dad.

His father, Mr. Russell, responded:

Sometimes waiting on the right time goes a little further than…you know waiting on that right time to tell you. That’s the way it came out. It could have been sooner. It should have been sooner.[…]I was married. I couldn’t do what I wanted to do. I would like to have taken him fishing or to ball games. I have two outside kids so I had to work two jobs. I worked two jobs for 19 years to take care of them.

His mom also came through to ask for forgiveness, and Terrell took it all as a time of healing.

This could be the best time, the most opportune time for this because everything has been festering inside of me and now I can take the necessary steps to move forward and rebuild my confidence.

See the video below:



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